if i were to choose one thing not to be scared about, i would definitely go for marriage. why? because it is scary. a friend is getting married in less than a month time and he admitted that he is stressful. it goes without saying, he indeed looks very stressed up.
it got me thinking, or rather asking, is marriage not supposed to be peaceful? it's a journey towards a totally new life. how can one embark onto a new life and is not at peace? in my friend's case, i am sure he'll be fine, it's just cold feet. but as for the rest, i can't be sure.
marriage is not easy. it's not just about having a good amount of money in your bank accounts. or a beautiful somebody you want to cuddle every night. it's much more than that! it's a HUGE responsibility, GIGANTIC commitment. now, that makes it sound even scarier.
for a person who is not a big fan of commitment, i'd choose to wait for another two to three years.
looking for commitment courses to attend.
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